Who Said that Raising a Child is Easy?

Every time we observe our children, nephews, grandchildren known or small, are common two things: see a difference in treatment by gender of children and notice how difficult it is to tell them not without a tantrum is generated.

Girls more accustomed to dolls and stuffed animals, toys away from children, who usually prefer to play with cars and action figures. However, the question is whether at some point this marked difference; of course delimit parents during development, producing some kind of transformation in children over time.

According to psychological studies that address this issue, raise children and girls differently is completely normal, but is focused on the dissension personality in them, not a sexist pattern, as commonly seen, pigeonholed women and man in attitudes almost contrary.

Avoid sexist or feminist comments, contributes to the free development of his personality and have a self-perception of their environment.

Love them and spoil them

You must know how and when to pamper children. Reward them with great demonstrations of affection and a gift when they meet a goal encourages them to continue on this path.

On the other hand, one must know spoil them, because frustrate the children, i.e., knowing when to say no, is done in order to learn from small to manage their emotions.

Many parents confuse love with the end consent, arising, for example, because of time they spend with their children through work and daily obligations and the need to compensate for this factor.

It is counterproductive to raise children a world where everything obtained with only reach out or whimper showing them a while, it is possible that a dependence on parents is generated and little it difficult to control negative emotions.

Finally, it is necessary that at all times; parents show love and know how to inspire respect and admiration for the children, because no matter whether they are boys or girls, parents are always the model.

It is difficult to know how to handle frustration of the children, however it is recommended that when children have a tantrum, you:

- It is away, always checking that they are well; in order to make them understand how little importance they give at the time.

- Do not show angry or yell, since you can calmly explain to them why you do not access your whim.

- Establish an emotional wall where Do not manipulate the feelings that you can produce your child for whining.

- At the end of the tantrum, affectionately show their dissatisfaction with the child, making him see that you are emotionally affected.

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