What to do with children Disrespectful

the first step to correct the misconduct is to face the stark reality that the fault that they are in that state is part of you. As often happens with most problems, you have to start by examining your own actions and attitudes and propose change in the areas that are accurate.

While children naturally question things more when they get a little older and need more explanation, disrespect and disobedience shameless usually due to excessive indulgence, because it teaches them how to manipulate their parents rather than respect. The solution is to be firmer. However, usually from words to action it is a long way, because that unacceptable behavior has become a bad habit and because at the time you considered valid probably your reason to act in a certain way -your love for children and your desire to happy- them.

Indeed, these reasons were valid; but if the results were negative it is that such an expression of love was not adequate to the situation. The family is also an expression of love and in some cases better. Usually children think about what will make them happy in the short term. So parents have to assume the obligation to judge what will ultimately be better for small, which in many cases involves saying no.

After that, it is important to have things clear in your heart of hearts. You have to know exactly what behaviors are acceptable and which are not. To persuade your children that it is necessary to change certain things, you need to have a deep conviction.

When establishing the rules that are needed in your opinion, you'll get better results if discussions with your children, you reason with them and you try to get their cooperation if simply impose the law and you demand your respect. The fact discusses the matter with them-listening their views, showing flexibility
and doing some modifications if necessary- evidenced respect to them
do you have. Chances are that you match that respect, and that is the first step in the right direction.

The way they explain things depend on their age and maturity. It begins by acknowledging that the fault is in your behalf and explain why change is necessary. "As I did not put an end to the matter of entry, have been used to answer wrong and disrespect. That has to change. It is not acceptable behavior in a home like ours, where we want to rein love. “It makes it clear what the rules are and what the consequences are if not observed. ”If they answer wrong or disrespected me, they will be without this or without the other." Do not hesitate to fulfill all the times you've warned them; otherwise, your rules will be useless. And promise not only punishment but also rewards for good behavior. "As mend recover their privileges, and maybe even give them something else."

Remember that not only aspire to change behavior; you propose to correct the attitude that led to the misconduct and cultivate good habits to replace bad. That takes time. The secret is prayer, constancy and firmness tempered with love. Commit to change together and strive to achieve it.

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