The task of parents is one of the most complicated in the world, raise children properly is not an easy or simple task. Here are some points to consider for the accompaniment is given in the best way.
When older beg, negotiate, bribe, threaten, give second chances or "reason" with their children, it is very difficult to get obedience from children.
The most common way of not getting their children obedience is when parents discuss with their young children. The parent makes a decision that the child does not like and this shrieks: "Why?” But it is not a question, but an invitation to war. By accepting this invitation, you immerse him in quicksand, and insist on a war that cannot win.
By telling it the explanation, children are only able to see a view, own.
Allow them to grow
In our society, there are very striking cases of children over 30 who receive assistance (or dependent) from their parents to pay the rent of a beautiful house, or older than 25 years which their parents buy clothes, or that son constantly changing work and lives a life of luxury thanks to the subsidy given by their parents, and the list could go more.
The greatest harm to children is to try to prevent leave the nest and deny them the happiness of learning to fly with its own wings.
Always first?
We have come to be obsessed with the idea of taking the kids to a position of prominence who has not won and which make no profit. And the family revolves around this focuses more child itself.
Except for the first few years of his life small not require constant care, children need to eat but if they are fed too much become addicted to food, so does excessive attention, is equally harmful, since it difficult for the child to overcome his childish selfishness (egocentric age).
Allow them to learn
Children should learn from the success and failures, and thus to overcome the setbacks of life on their own, so much so that when overprotect them and not allow this to happen, we deprive our children to develop their capacity for autonomy and independence in resolving conflicts.
In many cases the reason why children never learn to be self-sufficient is because parents have never expected them to be.
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