If you feel afraid to go to school because some nefarious partner makes your life impossible and puts you down, do not let it! You are in time to change this. Talk to your parents and teachers, as this type of abuse leads to depression and life threatening.
Almost no school is saved from staying at their facilities to people who engage only annoy others; many of them, for sure you know, they cease to mess with you when you defend aggression firmly. However, other "they'd better" and still uncomfortable, being his favorite victims the kids with some weakness or difference, as those who are intelligent, shy, chubby, shortest or wear glasses.
This type of harassment, also known as bullying, has always existed, but now most often through various forms of abuse: psychological, verbal and physical.
It is not simple mischief. If you are being harassed, take it seriously because it can have very serious repercussions.
Almost no school is saved from staying at their facilities to people who engage only annoy others; many of them, for sure you know, they cease to mess with you when you defend aggression firmly. However, other "they'd better" and still uncomfortable, being his favorite victims the kids with some weakness or difference, as those who are intelligent, shy, chubby, shortest or wear glasses.
This type of harassment, also known as bullying, has always existed, but now most often through various forms of abuse: psychological, verbal and physical.
It is not simple mischief. If you are being harassed, take it seriously because it can have very serious repercussions.
Normally the bully or aggressor is an insecure guy, although at first glance appears to be very "paid" or confident; live certain situations you cannot solve, because usually comes from a home where violence is daily; has low self-esteem, their parents do not pay much attention and often have few skills or skills.
To behave that way, attention and feel superior, but remember that it really is not. And of course, feel more empowered to create a group where he is leader and tells his "suckers" who you may annoy and to what extent and that's not all, because every time are more active role, making fun of the victim and forming networks of abuse shown up on the Internet.
How it affects you and what you do?
If someone harasses you at school, it is unlikely that your parents and teachers realize and maybe you experience symptoms link them to another question. And they realize it is difficult because, as you'll notice, they choose to annoy almost clandestine times and places, such as coffee breaks, bathrooms or after school.
As you can see, it is important that you have a lot of fear, break the silence and tell your parents, teachers and / or people whom you trust what is happening to you, and signals to annoy you. You've probably received serious threats to prevent talk, but for your sake, "mandalas the devil."
Do not hesitate: you have the support of your loved ones who will help you handle the situation. It is necessary that you face without fear of stalkers, but without using violence, and defend your rights and you refuse to do things against your will. Keep in mind the old saying: "The brave live until the coward wants."
If you are still the wave of violence will require that your family and you will advise a lawyer to take the necessary measures. And maybe help you attend psychological therapy, as an expert will allow you to overcome the problem and acquire tools to overcome the obstacles that arise in your life.
Experts have described the following types of bullying:
Social lock. Skirmishers cause social isolation and marginalization; for example, when you forbid playing in a group, talk or communicate with others, and cause anyone to listen to you.
Harassment. They are mobbing behaviors that manifest contempt, lack of respect and consideration for your dignity through ridicule, mockery, contempt, cruelty and gestural manifestation of offenses.
Social manipulation. Intended to distort your social image and "poison" others against you. No matter what you do, everything is used and serves to induce the rejection of others.
Coercion. They claim that perform actions against your will to usurp authority over you. Often it means you are a victim of harassment, abuse or unwanted sexual behavior that must remain silent for fear of reprisals about you or your brothers.
Social exclusion. The "you no" is the center of these behaviors with which the group secretes harasses you socially. The "silent treatment", isolate, prevent your expression and participation in games, the social vacuum occurs in your environment.
Intimidation. Consume you limit yourself emotionally by threats, physical harassment and harassment at the exit of the school.
Threat to integrity. Search frighten by threats against your body or your family, or through extortion.
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